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Mon, 29 Jul 2024 19:37:47 -0400

It’s all about taking action and making it happen. Women who go out with you are already open to the possibility of physical intimacy, so it’s just a matter of changing your approach. Even if you keep doing the same thing, it’s all about numbers. Just don’t give up, it’s not a good look and it’s really disheartening.

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Wed, 08 Dec 2021 13:30:57 -0400

We do a lot of interviews, and a lot of times HR haphazardly throws them on a calender despitethe fact that we may be off that day, or with so little warning we don’t even realize it’s happening until after the fact.

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Wed, 25 Aug 2021 09:31:19 -0400

Probably a sure bet that I’m less attractive than you are, and I’m a guy, but I was pretty successful on dating sites regardless, and have been in a serious relationship forever atp. The trick is to give it an honest try you’ll be surprised at how fast things may change.

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Wed, 18 Aug 2021 10:51:53 -0400

Some practical advice is to try out Zillow, which allows you to apply to many properties under one application fee. I think I spent $60 for me and my SO, and was able to land a very nice place quickly.

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Tue, 10 Aug 2021 16:02:34 -0400

Realistically, you shouldn’t be putting yourself in a position to “lose all the time”. Ideally, you build upon successes and then try to achieve a bigger success. Failing to achieve can be tough, especially when there’s a ton of effort involved, but if you feel like you’re completely on your ass every time then you probably should be thinking of your goals in terms of smaller steps.

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Fri, 26 Feb 2021 23:20:08 -0400

Go fiddle with the microwave for a minute and learn how to change the setting, then you will have learned something and won’t make the same mistake again, which generally registers as a success.

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Mon, 18 Jan 2021 18:24:45 -0400

I think a lot of people fall into this perspective that nobody will ever love them, and they take past experience as evidence. But really what this means is that the approach your using is unsuccessful. In reality, even if you have severe physical and mental issues, there are still people out there who will be into it, probably more than you realize. My advice is to lean into the statistics, go to an online dating site, clean up your profile and picture so you don’t come off as an axe murderer, and cast a wide net. You’ll be surprised at who might be interested.

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Tue, 29 Dec 2020 10:21:58 -0400

Contrary to the advice in this thread, I’ve had several friends whose girlfriend would endure ‘taking a break’ just to prove they are the right ones all along. If your girlfriend says she’s done then believe it, otherwise assume she’s not done yet.

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Wed, 16 Dec 2020 15:44:19 -0400

The nice thing about working with smokers is that once every 45 mins they fuck off together and leave you to think.

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Tue, 25 Aug 2020 16:16:33 -0400

I’ve noticed that bold moves often work out and that if you aren’t happy then making one is usually a good idea. Congrats OP

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Sun, 08 Sep 2019 11:35:36 -0400

Some people are who they are. if she’s anything like my parents she’ll eventually realize how she’s been and goes on an apology tour. Even then, she won’t change! It’s best not to get wrapped up in the perceptions of others.

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Sun, 24 Mar 2019 03:22:09 -0400

Sometimes people are needlessly abrasive and adversarial, in my experience these are oftentimes decent enough people but for whatever reason can’t fathom why their boarish behavior would ever bother anymore. It sounds like he sucks up all the oxygen in the room and nobody on his team is willing to confront them. In my experience, these assholes are people too and when you get to know them you’ll find a way to look past their behavior.

But it’s sometimes fun to give them a taste of their own medicine. If he’s not used to confrontation, you’ll be surprised at how far a little push-back will go. Especially in public, I’ve found you’ll usually get away with pointing out if someone is being an asshole in a standup if it happens to be true. It’s a jungle out there.